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- Some questions come up time and time again in alt.backrubs. Often
- the questions are interesting and the answers are not immediately obvious.
- However, each time one of these questions appears, much bandwidth and
- reader time is wasted on repetitive responses. This article, which is
- posted every two weeks, is an attempt to answer the most common questions,
- so that discussion can move on to more interesting topics.
- Your suggestions for changes to this article are welcome. Please
- see section 6 (entitled Administrivia and Acknowledgements) for information
- about whom to contact and what changes are planned.
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- Subject: List of Categories
- The questions answered here are divided into several categories:
- Section 1 General Questions
- Section 2 Basics of Massage
- Section 3 Novice Questions
- Section 4 Professional Massage
- Section 5 Other Sources of Information
- Section 6 Administrivia and Acknowledgements
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- Each section begins with `Subject:' on a line of its own. Users
- with suitably equipped newsreaders can automatically skip to the start of
- the next section, e.g. trn will display the start of the section when you
- press ^G (control-G). Of course if your newsreader doesn't do this
- automatically, you can still use a search command to find the next section.
-
-
- Subject: List of Questions
- Here is the detailed list of questions:
- Section 1: General Questions
- 1.1) What is alt.backrubs about?
- 1.2) What is massage? What is bodywork and how do they differ?
- 1.3) What are some examples of massage and bodywork techniques?
- 1.4) What must I know about anonymous posts?
- 1.5) What does this acronym stand for?
- 1.6) Help! I'm new to this whole Usenet/'net thing
- Section 2: Basics of Massage
- 2.1) How can I learn about massage?
- 2.2) Is massage a sexual technique?
- 2.3) Could I hurt anyone if I do something wrong?
- Section 3: Novice Questions
- 3.1) How should I start?
- 3.2) Where can I find people to give/receive massages? [See also 4.3]
- 3.3) What can I do about ticklishness?
- 3.4) What oil should I use?
- 3.5) How can I get oils?
- 3.6) Is there anything I can do about my tired hands?
- Section 4: Professional Massage
- 4.1) What about licencing?
- 4.2) Professional issues (massage table suppliers, organizations, etc.)
- 4.3) Finding a professional massage
- Section 5: Other Network Sources of Information
- 5.1) Other Frequent Postings to alt.backrubs
- 5.1.1) The backrubs exchange
- 5.1.2) The alt.backrubs archive
- 5.2) Other Network Resources
- 5.2.1) Newsgroups, mailing lists and gateways
- 5.2.2) Frequent postings to other newsgroups
- 5.2.3) Other archives and collections
- 5.2.4) Major lists of Internet and Usenet resources
- 5.2.5) Miscellaneous resources
- Section 6: Administrivia
- 6.1) Whom should I flame for anything I don't like about this FAQL?
- 6.2) What is on the To Do list?
- 6.3) Recent changes to this list
- 6.4) Acknowledgements
-
- To find the answer to question 3.2 search for a line beginning with
- `Q3.2)', there will be only one.
-
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- Subject: 1 -- General Information
-
- Q1.1) What is the alt.backrubs newsgroup about?
- This newsgroup functions primarily as a place for discussion of
- massage techniques and principles, and issues related to massage including
- bodywork therapies, e.g. Rolfing. Although you'd be wasting energy by
- posting messages seeking sexual partners here, there have been some
- interesting discussions about areas of overlap between massage and sex.
- See the archive for collections of such postings.
- Details about the archive appear in question 5.1.2. Question 5.2
- has a list of other network resources, e.g. newsgroups, with related
- material.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q1.2) What is massage? What is bodywork and how do the two differ?
- Massage includes a number of disciplines which share the use of
- pressure, friction and strain upon the muscles and joints of the body for
- therapeutic or affectionate physical responses. In the book _Massage: A
- Career at your fingertips_ Martin Ashley identifies several types of
- massage: massage for preventative general health, massage for relaxation,
- pampering or `beautification'; sports massage, massage for pain relief,
- rehabilitative massage (for recovery from physcial injury); massage as an
- adjunct to medical or chiropractic treatment; and massage for personal
- psychological transformation.
- The term `bodywork' is often used to refer to therapies that are
- often combined and confused with massage, e.g. Shiatsu, Trager, Rolfing,
- Polarity and Reflexology. Some of these therapies are described briefly in
- question 1.3, there are postings about all of them in the archive (see
- question 5.1.2).
-
- Q1.3) What are some examples of massage and bodywork?
- a) Swedish massage (which is a proper name, not a reference to Sweden)
- refers to a collection of techniques designed primarily to relax muscles by
- applying pressure to them against deeper muscles and bones, and rubbing in
- the same direction as the flow of blood returning to the heart. The lymph
- system and veins (which carry blood back to the heart) both rely on muscle
- action, rather than heart pump pressure, to operate. Many believe it is
- safe to apply light pressure in the opposite direction.
- Friction is reduced by oil, or lacking that baby powder. Some
- practitioners claim benefits from vegetable rather than mineral oil while
- others disagree. (See question 3.4 about oil and the `oil.vs.powder' file
- in the archive; the archive is the subject of question 5.1.2) Swedish
- massage can relax muscles, increase circulation, remove metabolic waste
- products, help the recipient obtain a feeling of connectedness, a better
- awareness of their body and the way they use and position it.
- b) Shiatsu, on the other hand, is a system based on the body's energy
- meridians. Shiatsu massages are normally done fully clothed and involve
- pressing points on the body and stretching and opening of the energy
- meridians. Shiatsu is somewhat related to acupuncture, which is a form of
- anaesthesia and therapy used in Chinese hospitals for surgery. Its
- proponents view it as a form of treatment alternative to medicine or
- surgery. (Toru Namikoshi's Complete Book of Shiatsu Therapy -- published by
- Japan Pubns., Inc. with ISBN 0-87040-461-x in 1981 -- claims to be the
- definitive work; Zen Shiatsu by Shizuto Masunaga & Wataru Ohashi, also
- published by Japan Publications Inc, ISBN 0 87040 394 X is also recommended
- in the archive.)
- c) This subsection, about Reflexology, is largely based on notes
- provided by Reflexology expert and author Kevin Kunz. He notes that there
- are significant differences between foot massage and Reflexology. Any
- errors are the fault of the FAQL maintainer and no one else.
- Reflexology is based on the belief that there are places on the
- feet (and hands) that correspond to parts of the body, e.g. internal organs
- and joints. Manipulating those parts of the feet (or hands) can have
- direct effects on corresponding parts of the body. Some proponents claim
- the ability to diagnose and treat illnesses of these organs by appropriate
- reflexological treatment.
- I haven't seen a convincing explanation of why this is supposed to
- work but many people cite Reflexology as an excellent technique for
- holistic assessment and adjunct to other therapies. Although Reflexology
- is often discussed as part of Zone Therapy although this isn't completely
- accurate. The archive contains some discussion and references to books
- about Reflexology.
- According to Reflexology teacher Terry Norman <tnt@onramp.net>:
- a currently accepted theory in the West is that Reflexology works
- by way of the neuro-reflex points found in the feet & hands. When
- organs don't function normally the neural signals along the
- network change patterns. Such changes can be detected and
- monitored through the reflex points. Chemistry at these points
- sometimes changes as well -- hard painful spots (said to be uric
- acid crystals) may form at points that relate to the organ, or
- area of the body, to which the reflex point corresponds.
- Occasionally, when rubbing or pressing firmly on these spots you
- can feel them "pop" or burst apart -- they feel grainy or gritty
- like sand or sugar. After the spots disappear, the area begins to
- become less tender and the organ to which the reflex point relates
- also functions better.
- In traditional Chinese medicine (TCM) the points on the hands
- & feet correspond to the channels & collaterals. TCM has charts
- dating back thousands of years illustrating the same points on
- these areas as modern day Foot & Hand Reflexology charts. I
- believe that the "true" system is some convergence of both
- systems. Although, I think that what has been called
- "Reflexology", or "Zone Therapy" is nothing more than a
- re-discovering of the wheel you might say.
- d) By mixing scents with the oil, various pleasing moods can be
- created. Aromatherapy is the use of fragrant substances for health and
- beauty treatment. It is often combined with massage since oils can be used
- to carry fragrances while also allowing more pressure to be applied to
- muscles. Its proponents claim that health benefits are associated with
- specific choices of scent. For example, clary sage can be used to combat
- depression. (See questions 5.2.2 and 5.1.2 for other sources of
- information about Aromatherapy.)
- e) Erotic massage is really a sexual foreplay technique, rather than a
- form of massage. Massage focuses on muscles, whereas erotic massage
- focuses primarily on skin. It's been said that 95% of erotic (or sensual)
- massage is the same as other massage. There is nonetheless some
- information specifically about erotic massage in the archive.
- f) There are many more types of massage than the few dealt with here.
- If you are interested in learning about a specific type that is not
- mentioned here, look for a file about it in the archive or read one of the
- books recommended in this FAQL (see question 2.1) or in the book file in
- the archive (see question 5.1.2).
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q1.4) Anonymous Posts
- There isn't a lot of tolerance for anonymous posting in
- alt.backrubs. This intolerance is often expressed by people not following
- up or responding to anonymous posts. If there is some reason you must post
- using an anonymous service you will find people more co-operative if you
- give your real name and e-mail address as well as explaining why you must
- use the service. In case you must remain anonymous you are advised to
- mention the reason in your post.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q1.5) Acronyms
- Acronyms peculiar to alt.backrubs:
- AMBP = Associated Bodyworkers and Massages Professionals
- AMTA = American Massage Therapy Association
- AOBTA = American Oriental Body Therapy Association
- LITA = Look In The alt.backrubs Archive
- MT = Massage Therapist (Massage Technician, in some places)
- NCETMB = USA National Certification Exam for Therapeutic Massage
- and Bodywork
- NCBTMB = USA National Certification Board for Therapeutic Massage
- and Bodywork
- RMT = Registered MT (usually abbreviated to MT)
-
- Other acronyms and abbreviations you should be familiar with:
- ETLA = Extended TLA, i.e. a four letter acronym
- FAQ = Frequently Asked Question (this is also the traditional
- acronym for a list of FAQs)
- FAQL = Frequently Asked Question List
- FTP = File Transfer Protocol
- GMT = Greenwich Mean Time
- ISBN = International Standard Book Number
- TLA = Three Letter Acronym
- URL = Universal Resource Locator, a computer network address
- standard developed in conjunction with the World Wide Web
- USA = United States of America
- WAIS = Wide Area Information Servers (a type of automated index
- of documents available via the Internet)
- WWW = World Wide Web (a global network of hypermedia documents
- connected by links implemented using the Internet)
- :-) = An emoticon often used to express humorous intent or
- happiness, also used to abate a strong statement so as not
- to offend
- :) = ditto (but less formal)
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q1.6) Help! I'm new to this whole Usenet/'net thing
- The following two newsgroups contain some excellent introductory
- postings: news.announce.newusers and news.newusers.questions.
- Whoever is providing you with access to Usenet should be able to
- give you some basic introduction or instruction. This isn't because they
- are necessarily nice, but because if they don't at least attempt to tell
- you the basics then they can't blame you when you do something awful. If
- they haven't offered you any advice or instruction then ask someone
- responsible for some pointers to useful information. I advise you not to
- ask another newcomer -- that is a great way to propagate misconceptions.
- There are many introductory books about the global Internet and
- Usenet. If you learn well from books then you might consider buying one or
- borrowing it from a library. Some books are available for free, others are
- available for sampling online as an enticement to get you to buy them. For
- a fuller discussion of such books see a) the misc.books.technical
- newsgroup, b) the Unofficial Internet Book List at the rtfm.mit.edu FTP
- site (filename `book-list' in the directory
- `pub/usenet/news.answers/internet-services'). See question 5.2.2 for more
- information about the rtfm.mit.edu FTP site.
-
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------
-
- Subject: 2 -- Basics of Massage
-
- Q2.1) How can I learn about massage?
- _The Massage Book_ by George Downing (and illustrated by Anne Kent
- Rush) is highly and frequently recommended. It has been co-published by
- Bodyworks and Random House with ISBN 0-394-70770-2 (paper) since 1972. The
- trade edition is reported to have ISBN 0-394-48241-7 but I didn't find it
- in _Books In Print_. _The Massage Book_ is not one of the many coffee
- table books on massage.
- The alt.backrubs archive (see question 5.1.2) contains a lot of
- advice for novice and experienced massagers. The archive category `Getting
- Started' contains basic advice about massage techniques. The archive also
- contains suggestions for other books, videos and some magazine articles.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q2.2) Is massage a sexual technique?
- It can be, but it need not be.
- Massage operates in a continuum between physical therapy or say
- Shiatsu, which is exclusively muscle focused and is highly non-erotic, to
- Swedish massage, which is muscle focused and includes affectionate but not
- erotic touch, to erotic massage which is a sexual technique.
- Most people's response to a good (Swedish) massage is to fall
- asleep, not to get aroused. If a massage is focused on relaxing muscle
- groups, it will not be an erotic experience. The donor will get a major
- workout and the receiver will be very relaxed. If a massage is focused on
- touching skin it will be an affectionate experience and a highly intimate
- and emotional one -- but not an erotic one. If a body rub is primarily
- focused on touching skin, especially if that focus includes erogenous
- zones, it will be an erotic experience.
- There are some very nice strokes which are used only in sexual
- contexts, they are quite distinct from the strokes used in other kinds of
- massage. Some of them are described in the archive.
- One of the hallmarks of a dysfunctional family (one which
- perpetuates a culture of addiction and dependence) is a deep confusion
- between affectionate and erotic touch combined with a strong yearning for,
- yet fear of, emotional intimacy. People who have this confusion are likely
- to experience any kind of touch as erotic or to use affectionate touch as a
- surrogate for forbidden erotic touch. These same people are likely to view
- all nudity as sexual, or more properly, to consider touch, nudity and sex,
- as surrogates for the intimacy vacuum associated with the culture. This
- forms the subtext for some of the threads that appear periodically in the
- newsgroup. Because most massage, like most body therapies, is hindered by
- clothing, and involves touch, this newsgroup periodically attracts the
- attention of some of these unfortunates.
- You will avoid unpleasant misunderstandings if you are clear in
- your own mind on what you want, and if you are able to clearly discern
- between a prospective masseur/masseuse/ massee :-) and a prospective sexual
- partner, or someone with a voyeuristic interest in the pseudo-intimacy of
- nudity.
- There is lots about this in the archive (see question 5.1.2 for
- information about the archive).
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q2.3) Might I hurt someone if I do something wrong?
- There are some things to be careful of. Read a good book, to learn
- all you need to know. In general, be careful of organs, joints (including
- vertebrae), and veins. Avoid applying heavy pressure to the kneecap, back
- of the knee, the abdomen and the front of the neck. There is a right
- direction (toward the heart) and a wrong direction to apply pressure.
- (Veins have valves that act to prevent the backflow of blood returning to
- the heart. You don't want to blow those valves!) Read the `toward.heart'
- file in the archive (see question 5.1.2) if you are interested in the
- discussion of why certain massage techniques do not go towards the heart.
- Similarly, the abdomen should be massaged in a clockwise direction because
- of the way the intestines are laid out.
- Obviously: avoid broken bones, acute inflammations, etc., and use
- caution if the recipient has a medical problem, including infections.
- Cancer and plebitis have been mentioned as conditions incompatible with
- massage.
- Beyond that, you're responsible for getting your own expert
- therapeutic, medical, legal, etc. advice :-)
- The `warning' file in the archive contains some of the more dire
- warnings posted to the newsgroup. The `toward.heart' file in the archive
- contains some more information about the direction to apply pressure in.
-
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------
-
- Subject: 3 -- Novice Questions
-
- Q3.1) How should I start?
- Practice. Practising bad technique will have a bad effect,
- practising good technique will have a good effect, so do some reading
- first. Read about technique often as you are starting out to help you
- correct yourself.
- Do not restrict yourself to too few recipients. You will learn
- much more from giving one massage each to 20 people than you will by giving
- 20 massages to one person. Even if there is a primary recipient you have
- in mind, the quality of that one person's experience will be severely
- limited if your experience is limited to that one person.
- Receiving a massage can also be a learning experience. You may
- better understand variations of touch, pressure, etc. as well as learning
- new techniques and strokes from others. Caroline Knight adds: you can
- learn a lot by applying strokes to yourself.
- As you massage another person, be aware of the effects that your
- touch is having both on the person you're touching and on yourself.
- Temporarily put aside anything else you might have going on, and focus your
- attention on the massage. What are your fingers conveying about the
- tension and texture of the recipients muscles? Be aware of how both of you
- are breathing. Use your body weight to gently and smoothly apply pressure,
- instead of muscling the pressure. Learning to give a good massage is only
- partly about learning technique.
- A lot of what you need to learn is about being present in your body
- and present in the current moment. You can learn a lot about superficial
- anatomy just paying attention to what your fingers are feeling.
- Question 3.6 is about tired hands, a common affliction among
- newcomers to massage.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q3.2) Where can I find people to give (or receive) massages?
- Among people that share an interest in massage and among people who
- trust you. (See question 2.2 about sexual massage.) A list of people
- willing to exchange backrubs has been set up. See question 5.1.1, about
- the exchange, for more information.
- Question 4.3 is about how to distinguish between a proficient,
- professional MT and someone who just calls themself a MT, before you pay
- for their services.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q3.3) What can I do about ticklishness?
- Ticklishness arises from hypersensitivity. Sometimes, but not
- always, this is due to nervousness or discomfort with being touched, or
- with being unclothed. (See question 2.2 about sexual massage, above.)
- This can be dealt with by massaging first less threatening areas. The back
- is perhaps the least threatening area to massage, followed by (in most
- cases) the limbs, neck and head (including the face). By the time you
- reach more sensitive areas, i.e. legs, chest and abdomen, they will have
- relaxed from the effects of the massage. They will also have had a chance
- to develop a level of comfort with you that they feel safe. Note this
- assumes that your attitude and approach to massage are consistent with such
- feelings. Increased pressure will also reduce ticklishness, particularly
- if their sensitivity is physiological rather than emotional.
- lonnie@meaddata.com recommended: The easiest solution is to have
- the person receiving the backrub place their hands on or near the hands of
- the person giving the backrub... After several times of using this
- technique the recipient will no longer need to touch the masseuse.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q3.4) What oil should I use?
- There is lots of material in the archive (see question 5.1.2) about
- massage oils. Please, read it before posting something like `Hey, I use
- oil for my massages. Has anyone else tried this yet?'.
- Mineral oil and some vegetable oils are thick. If liberally
- slopped on they will both tend to clog pores. Some people have skin
- especially prone to inflammation from this. On the other hand many massage
- lotions have a mineral oil base. When applied sparingly, as for deep
- tissue work, they don't usually cause problems. There are also a number of
- lighter weight vegetable oil blends available. They go on easily and
- produce a much thinner oil film. They also spill a lot faster if you get
- careless with the cap open. Vegetable oils can go rancid (in the bottle,
- on clothes, on sheets, etc.) which mineral oils don't. Some massage
- schools use mineral oil exclusively because of this -- rancid rugs and
- sheets are not appealing. Also, mineral oils are hypoallergenic.
- A convenient squeeze dispenser bottle (i.e., one having a narrow
- spout with a small opening) can be found in many stores (you might try at a
- camp outfitting store, a pharmacy or even a cosmetics outlet).
- Refrigerating oil when not in use and keeping bottles full also
- helps. If you refrigerate the oil then you might want to warm the bottle
- of oil in a hot water bath before using it. Some people have allergies to
- specific vegetable oils. Some people feel that vegetable oils are in some
- way more natural than mineral oils. Oils containing vitamin E may have a
- better shelf life, since it's an antioxidant.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q3.5) How do I get oils?
- You don't need special oils, but they can be a nice touch. Make
- sure you remember to rub the oil between your hands to warm it, never pour
- it directly on the person you are massaging as it is uncomfortable and
- distracting.
- The file `oils.sources', in the archive (see question 5.1.2)
- contains lists of places you can order ready-made oils from. It also
- contains information about making your own oils.
- If you are just starting out, John Cole recommends trying safflower
- oil. It is a light, odourless vegetable oil available from most grocery
- stores. Caroline Knight wrote: `I'm still using grape seed oil as my base
- as recommended by someone from alt.backrubs ages ago!'
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q3.6) Is there anything I can do about my tired hands?
- Many people use their hands too much for massage. If you need to
- apply lots of pressure (see the `deep.back' and `knots' files in the
- archive, which is the subject of question 5.1.2) you should lean into the
- massage and let your weight provide much of the pressure. The `weak.arms'
- file in the archive is also of interest.
- Don't be afraid to use other parts of your body than just your
- hands for variety. I've had great success using my forearms and wrists.
- The palms and heel of the hand are commonly used for certain light and deep
- strokes respectively. Some people like to use their feet but must be very
- careful not to apply too much pressure. The variety of strokes and
- pressure that can be achieved by using other parts of the body can be a
- blessing to both the recipient and giver. The `with.feet' file in the
- archive contains some discussion of these points.
- You can prevent your hands from getting tired by strengthening them
- through regular exercise (see the `finger.excer' file in the archive). The
- archive contains information about massages you or others can give to your
- aching hands too (see `finger.excer', `hand&neck', `wrist.pain' to start).
-
- ---------------------------------------------------------------------
-
- Subject: 4 -- Professional Massage
-
- Q4.1) What about licencing?
- Licencing is, of course, only relevant if you are looking to charge
- for giving massages. The restrictions and regulations differ from state to
- state in the USA and province to province in Canada. If you have
- information about regulation in other countries, please post it to the
- newsgroup.
- Some jurisdictions have no restrictions, some provide two-tier
- regulation (distinguishing between so-called technicians or bodyworkers and
- therapists), some just want to make sure massage is not being used as a
- cover for prostitution. Some even require a level of training level
- equivalent to what a physical therapist would have. More information, and
- much discussion, is available in the archive (see the category about
- certification; information about the archive appears in question 5.1.2).
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q4.2) Professional issues
- The alt.backrubs newsgroup has had many discussions of issues
- related to massage as a profession and tools and techniques for massage
- professionals. Copies of many posts on these topics are available in the
- alt.backrubs archive (see question 5.1.2). For example, the archive
- contains information about massage tables, professional organizations,
- exams and draping standards.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q4.3) Finding a professional massage
- In many jurisdictions, people may advertise as giving massage when
- do not provide a good massage. Some provide substandard services and
- others provide sexual services under the guise of massage. Many people
- post to alt.backrubs seeking advice about how to tell where they can get a
- skilled massage before they have paid for the services.
- If all you care about is whether you are going to get a
- professional massage or sexual services then ask. Be aware however that if
- they are using massage as a cover for sexual services then they probably
- won't answer direct questions about whether or not they offer sexual
- services. Many of the suggestions in this answer come from the
- `finding.a.MT' file in the archive.
- Someone suggested some questions that might help you detect what
- services unknown massagers really provide and how skilled they are in the
- type of massage you want (see question 1.2). You could ask about their
- professional education, e.g. how many hours of training have they had (this
- varies from about 250 to 2000), which massage school did they attend, what
- their favourite course was and what types of massage they prefer. It has
- also been suggested that you ask whether the prospective masseur offers
- such services as `relief massage' (often a codeword for masturbation). You
- might also ask what professional organizations they belong to as members of
- the AMTA (American Massage Therapy Association) and ABMP (Association of
- Bodywork and Massage Professionals) are strictly forbidden from sexual
- involvement with their clients. Not all professional MTs belong to either
- of these organizations -- you can read some of the arguments in the archive
- if you're really interested.
- Once you're satisfied that you have found an above board MT you
- should try to find out if they will be suitable for the type of treatment
- you want. Be clear about what your needs are and tell the MT. Perhaps you
- want massage for relaxation or you have a specific area that needs
- attention, for example. A good MT will help you pinpoint what it is you
- want from the session, often just by talking about it with you. If you are
- at all uncomfortable with the thought of being unclothed, then discuss
- draping with the MT before the massage begins. Absolutely no professional
- MT will demand a client remove any clothing that the client is not
- comfortable removing regardless of what impact this will have on the
- massage.
- Please note however that just because a MT graduated from a
- professional school they aren't necessarily going to give you a great
- massage. It has been said many times in alt.backrubs that some MTs have
- the technical knowledge of what to do but lack the sensitivity to detect
- what clients really need. Corrina Perrone writes that, in her experience,
- it almost always takes at least two years of practice after graduation for
- MTs to a develop a truly professional calibre of massage.
- Much information about what you should expect as a massage client
- is available in the archive file `what.to.expect'. In addition, Corrina
- Perrone <corrina@cs.colorado.edu> recommends:
- if you still have doubts about the qualifications ask direct
- questions about the types of bodywork they do -- and expect some
- technical answers [like those in question 1.3, above]. Ask them to
- describe these techniques, and how they use them in a session.
- You'll get a lot of `it depends' answers, but a good therapist will
- be able to give you an example, such as, `I warm the muscle tissue
- up using mostly Swedish massage strokes, and then use deep tissue
- techniques to work out tightness. If there is limited movement, I
- might use NMT [neuromuscular massage therapy] work on the muscle
- attachments, and some Trager techniques to integrate the work.'
- Find out how long they have been in practice.
- If you are screening the therapists by phone, look for qualities
- that indicate they would be a good person with whom to work.
- Do they listen to what you are saying and respond to it?
- Do they ask questions about your needs?
- Do they impress you as professional?
- Do you feel like you are being listened to, or do you feel
- like you are getting a lecture in physiology?
- Are you comfortable with a male therapist or do you prefer a
- female?
- Take a little while and think about this strategically -- there is
- something you want from the bodywork, and you are picking the best
- partner to help you achieve that goal.
- If you aren't comfortable with the MT touching you the treatment
- isn't going to help you regardless what techniques they use. Be
- sure to tell them if something makes you uncomfortable, and feel
- free to ask questions about anything they do. You should feel
- respected and honoured, and the session should provide
- opportunities for you to relax and get back in touch with yourself.
- Remember, any MT needs to know if you are seeing another
- practitioner in order to make sure the massage won't interfere. A
- lot of people don't know, for instance, that even if they are on
- chronic illness drugs, if they continue to receive bodywork
- regularly, their medication prescriptions usually will need to be
- decreased.
- Other typical advice is to get a referral from a trusted friend,
- physician or other health care professional, local massage school, health
- food store or Chamber of Commerce. Steve Brooks <XFWB90A@prodigy.com>
- suggested (in article <3eco5n$1a0m@usenetp1.news.prodigy.com>) that `major
- hotel chains that cater to Japanese tourists [...] should be able to refer
- you to reputable [J]apanese style massage therapists.' How you're supposed
- to locate such hotels is left as an exercise to the reader.
-
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------
-
- Subject: 5 -- Other Network Sources of Information
-
- Q5.1) Other Frequent Postings to alt.backrubs
- Q5.1.1) The backrubs exchange
- The new backrubs exchange programme is a list of people from around
- the globe willing to exchange backrubs. The list maintainer has written
- that the list will be posted on or about the first of every month.
- There are two files in the archive (see question 5.1.2) about the
- backrubs exchange programme: the announcement, `exchange.prog', and the
- most current update, `exchange.update'.
- If you want to be added to the list: please read the announcement
- before sending mail to Paul Selkirk <paul@ftp.com>.
- The archive also contains information about other exchanges held in
- Chicago (`exchange.chicago') and Seattle (`exchange.seattle'). There was
- once another backrubs exchange programme but it disappeared without a trace
- long ago. Paul Selkirk is the third person to maintain the new list.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.1.2) The alt.backrubs archive
- There is an FTP-accessible archive of alt.backrubs postings
- organized by topic. Full details can be found in the archive announcement
- (posted to the newsgroup every 10 days and archived at the rtfm.mit.edu FTP
- site, see question 5.2.2). Essential details about the archive follow.
- Copies of the alt.backrubs archive are kept at two anonymous FTP
- sites: a main site and a mirror site. The main site is ftp.csd.UWO.ca,
- which has IP address 129.100.11.252. Please connect during off-peak hours
- (between 7pm and 7am Eastern time), the server is 5 hours behind GMT during
- standard time (it is in Ontario, Canada). The files are in the directory
- `pub/news/alt.backrubs'.
- The archive is mirrored at the sunsite.unc.edu anonymous FTP site
- which has IP address 198.86.40.81. The sunsite copy of the archive is in
- directory
- `pub/academic/medicine/alternative-healthcare/massage-therapy/alt.backrubs'.
- The archive is cross-referenced and crudely indexed. You can read
- the details in both the archive announcement and the archive's `00README'
- file. The files are in mailbox format (so you can read them as ordinary
- text files or use any standard mail reader to treat them as a list of mail
- messages).
- Most of the files in the archive have been encoded by the standard
- Unix compress program. The compressed files all have `.Z' at the end of
- their names. The ftp.csd.uwo.ca FTP site provides a method to uncompress
- files as they are being sent. For information about the special transfer
- features (including automatic uncompress) at ftp.csd.uwo.ca read the file
- ~ftp/pub/README at that site -- the file is only at that site because it is
- not part of the alt.backrubs archive.
- If you want to transfer the compressed versions of the files to
- your site for decoding, the transfer must be in binary form and you'll need
- some kind of uncompress to decode the files (the GNU unzip, `gunzip', works
- fine). The file `00README' in the archive contains information about where
- you can obtain an uncompress program. It is the only file in the archive
- that is not compressed or solely for indexing.
- The archive is maintained by J. Blustein <jamie@uwo.ca>.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.2) Other Network Resources
- Please note that this list is almost certainly not complete and
- none of the materials listed here are maintained by the person responsible
- for this document. If you have any corrections or possible additions to
- this list please send mail to the FAQL maintainer.
-
- Q5.2.1) Newsgroups, mailing lists and gateways
- a) The misc.health.alternative newsgroup sometimes carries
- discussions of the same or similar topics to those discussed in
- alt.backrubs. Its charter includes discussions of Aromatherapy for
- example. The charter can be found in the `control.messages' file in the
- archive (see question 5.1.2). Sunsite (see question 5.2.3) has collections
- of many postings to the newsgroup.
-
- b) According to a report that appears in the archive's `group.split'
- file, the pdax.services.massage newsgroup is for the discussion of
- professional massage by professionals. (The archive is the subject of
- question 5.1.2.) The pdax newsgroup hierarchy has a small distribution so
- most people can't read it. Repostings of significant postings from that
- newsgroup to alt.backrubs would probably be appreciated.
-
- c) The alt.med.fibromyalgia newsgroup is a gated version of the
- FIBROM-L mailing list. Jim McIntosh <jim@american.edu> wrote in article
- <94179.153614JIM@auvm.american.edu>:
- >FIBROM-L is a discussion forum for the disease/syndrome known as
- >fibromyalgia / fibrositis. It is an opportunity for patients, family and
- >friends of patients, physicians and researchers, and other interested
- >persons to discuss this condition.
- That article is in the archive's `fibromyalgia' file.
-
- d) The tuite mailing-list is `[t]o discuss the theories of
- traditional chinese medicine as it relates to the martial arts. Pressure
- points, KO's, revivals, massage techniques will all be discussed.' [This
- is according to the 18 Dec 1994 version of the Publicly Accessible Mailing
- Lists list, see question 5.2.4 c)]
- To have your address added to the list send mail to
- owner-tuite@virginia.edu
- with the line:
- "subscribe [address]"
- in the body.
-
- e) In article <stevenkCwwo3x.3rv@netcom.com> stevenk@netcom.com
- (Steven Katz) wrote:
- >There is an electronic mailing list for discussion of aromatherapy. To
- >join the mailing list or to request more information about the mailing
- >list, send e-mail to aromatherapy-l-request@netcom.com.
- That article is in the archive's `oil.scents' file.
-
- f) You might be able to have specific questions about herbs (for
- use with oils), Aromatherapy, etc. answered in the alt.folklore.herbs
- newsgroup. It would be nice if summaries of information thus obtained were
- posted to alt.backrubs.
-
- g) The alt.aromatherapy newsgroup doesn't exist in many parts of
- the Usenet because of the way it was made. My site didn't even receive the
- message that the group had been created! (See the `control.messages' file
- in the archive.) Discussions of Aromatherapy also occur in the mailing
- list and in other newsgroups listed above. A collection of postings to the
- newsgroup is available from Sunsite (see question 5.2.3).
-
- h) The SOREHAND mailing-list is `for the discussion of Typing
- injuries, Repetitive Stress Injuries/Disorder, Cumulative Trauma Disorder,
- Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, etc.' [according to the Publicly Accessible Mailing
- Lists list, see question 5.2.4 c)]
- To have your address added to the list send mail to
- listserv@ucsfvm.ucsf.edu with the line:
- subscribe sorehand your-name
- in the body.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.2.2) Frequent postings to other newsgroups
- This list does not include the entire subject line for most of
- these posts since they appear in many parts. The notation `[etc.]' appears
- at the point where the subject lines were truncated to help you use the
- rest to search for the postings.
- The Archive-name can be used to find the files at the rtfm.mit.edu
- FTP site. Files are stored in directories corresponding to the newsgroups
- they are posted in (pub/usenet-by-group/ and pub/usenet-by-hierarchy/) and
- archive-name (pub/usenet-by-group/news.answers/). Archive-names that end
- with `*' are directories that contain the multi-part postings.
- For example, the alt.backrubs archive announcement (which has
- Archive-name `backrubs/archive', Subject `[alt.backrubs] FTP archive site'
- and is posted to the following newsgroups: alt.backrubs, alt.answers and
- news.answers) is stored in the following files at the rtfm.mit.edu site:
- pub/usenet-by-group/news.answers/backrubs/archive
- pub/usenet-by-group/alt.answers/backrubs/archive
- pub/usenet-by-hierarchy/news/answers/backrubs/archive
- pub/usenet-by-hierarchy/alt/answers/backrubs/archive
- pub/usenet-by-group/alt.backrubs/[alt.backrubs]_FTP_archive_site
- pub/usenet-by-hierarchy/alt/backrubs/[alt.backrubs]_FTP_archive_site
- It is a single part posting.
- If you can't use FTP but can send and receive mail, you can use a
- mail server to retrieve the files. To learn about the news.answers mail
- server send an e-mail message to <mail-server@rtfm.mit.edu> with the word
- help on a line of its own in the body (not the Subject) of the message.
- There is some information about other FTP mail servers in the alt.backrubs
- archive announcement.
- Hypertext versions of many of the FAQLs stored at the rtfm.mit.edu
- site are available for browsing within the world wide web (WWW) at URL
- `http://www.cis.ohio-state.edu/hypertext/faq/usenet/'. N.B.: this doesn't
- mean these hypertext versions are necessarily as good as, or better than,
- the posted versions.
-
- a) Subject: Stretching and Flexibility FAQ [etc.]
- Newsgroups: rec.martial-arts, misc.fitness, rec.arts.dance,
- alt.arts.ballet, rec.sport.misc, alt.answers, rec.answers,
- misc.answers, news.answers
- Archive-name: stretching/*
- FTP-site: cs.huji.ac.il:/pub/doc/faq/rec/martial.arts
- WWW: http://archie.ac.il:8001/papers/rma/stretching_toc.html
- NB: The archive's self massage file has information about stretching.
-
- b) Subject: FAQ: Typing Injuries [etc.]
- Newsgroups: sci.med, sci.med.occupational, comp.human-factors,
- comp.answers, sci.answers, news.answers
- Archive-name: typing-injury-faq/*
-
- c) Subject: How to find the right place to post (FAQ)
- Newsgroups: news.announce.newusers, news.groups.questions,
- news.groups.reviews, news.groups, news.newusers.questions, alt.config,
- alt.answers, news.answers
- Summary: This article gives some general hints to help you find an
- appropriate place to post on a given topic, and gives pointers to some
- available resources. A few other new-user topics are also addressed,
- mostly through pointers to other FAQs.
- Archive-name: finding-groups/general
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.2.3) Other archives and collections
-
- a) Sunsite Alternative Healthcare Collection
- Lots of information about network resources for `alternative
- healthcare' as well as about Sun microsystems computing products,
- sustainable agriculture and `alternative energy'. Sunsite maintains
- archives for many mailing lists and newsgroups. There is far too much
- at Sunsite to list here.
- Mail: send mail to info@sunsite.unc.edu to automatically receive a
- help file (about 500 lines long).
- Telnet: sunsite.unc.edu
- Connect with telnet to use: a WWW browser, WAIS, or a gopher
- client
- FTP: sunSITE.unc.edu
- directory pub/academic/medicine/alternative-healthcare
- WWW: http://sunsite.unc.edu/
- gopher://sunsite.unc.edu
- Gopher Bookmark (medicine):
- Type=1
- Name=medicine [...]
- Path=1/../.pub/academic/medicine
- Host=president.oit.unc.edu
- Port=70
-
- b) Internet/Bitnet Health Sciences Resources
- FTP: ftp2.cc.ukans.edu : file pub/hmatrix/medlst* (see note below)
- ftp.sura.net : file pub/nic/medical-resources.* (see note below)
-
- Lee Hancock <Le07144@Ukanvm.cc.ukans.edu> has compiled an extensive
- list of network resources about health. It is available in ZIPped form for
- FTP from ftp2.cc.ukans.edu in the pub/hmatrix directory with filename
- medlstXX.zip, where the XX portion is the month of the latest update. A
- non-compressed version is also available at medlstXX.txt.
- The ftp.sura.net FTP site may also have a copy of the file in the
- pub/nic directory with filename medical.resources.XX-XX where the XX-XX
- portion are the version identifier assigned by the FTP administration at
- SURANet. At the time of this writing the most recent version is 3-26-94
- and the filename is `medical.resources.3-94'.
-
- c) Alternative Health World
- WWW: http://sailfish.peregrine.com/wb/ww/m(90,160)
-
- In article <3aajl0$cf2@geraldo.cc.utexas.edu> ebert@mail.utexas.edu
- (Priscilla L. Ebert) wrote:
- >This is a new place -- under development. Participation is encouraged.
- [...]
- >Think of it as a layered concept, ie:
- >
- > Alternative Health World
- > \/
- > Food World Body Therapies Mind Therapies
- > \/ \/ \/
- >Vegetarian Delights Rolfing Massage Reichian
- > \/ \/ \/ \/
- > Vegie Recipes practitioners practitioners
- >
- >Read the Web World instructions,
- > consider the topic area,
- > understand how you can be a part,
- > then participate!
- >
- >email to me questions, comments, etc.
-
- d) Internet Resources on Alternative Medicine
- FTP: ftp.clark.net
- file pub/journalism/altmed.txt
- John Makulowich <makulow@trainer.com> has written a short (229
- lines) list of references to network resources about alternative medicine.
-
- e) Where is the archive for newsgroup X?
- WWW:
- http://starbase.neosoft.com/~claird/news.lists/newsgroup_archives.html
-
- Cameron Laird <claird@neosoft.com> maintains a WWW document that
- includes a list of Usenet archives. The address above is new as of
- 4 February 1995.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.2.4) Major lists of Internet and Usenet resources
- This section lists only the most modern, major and general lists of
- network resources. It serves as a catch-all for anything that was missed
- above. Be sure to also read about the news.groups.questions newsgroup in
- question 5.2.5 and the `How to find the right place to post' FAQL in
- question 5.2.2.
-
- a) Subject: Updated Internet Services List
- Newsgroups: alt.internet.services, comp.misc, biz.comp.services,
- alt.bbs.internet,news.answers
- Archive-name: internet-services/list
- FTP-Site: ftp.csd.uwm.edu:/pub/inet.services.txt
- Gopher: gopher.csd.uwm.edu (select Remote Information Services...)
- Mail: bbslist@aug3.augsburg.edu (Auto-replies with lists)
- WWW: http://www.uwm.edu/Mirror/inet.services.html
- Note: compiled by Scott Yanoff
-
- b) Subject: List of Periodic Informational Postings, [etc.]
- Newsgroups: news.lists, news.answers
- Archive-name: periodic-postings/*
-
- c) Subject: Publicly Accessible Mailing Lists, Part [etc.]
- Newsgroups: news.lists, news.answers
- Archive-name: mail/mailing-lists/*
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q5.2.5) Miscellaneous resources
- a) In article <Cn0uDy.Bo2@uunet.uu.net> tale@uunet.uu.net (David C
- Lawrence) wrote:
- > The unmoderated group news.groups.questions is an appropriate place to
- > ask (and answer) questions about newsgroups, such as which topics are
- > discussed where, and how to start, find or create groups or mailing
- > lists for specific interests.
- See also about the `How to find the right place to post' FAQL in
- question 5.2.2.
-
- b) The archive file fidonet.echo (see question 5.2.2 for
- information about the archive) contains some information about a FidoNet
- echo named BODYWORK. I don't know anything about it beyond what is in the
- archive. If you can help expand this entry please send mail to the FAQL
- maintainer at Internet address <jamie@uwo.ca>. (Mail to the address in the
- archive bounced.)
-
- ----------------------------------------------------------------------
-
- Subject: 6 -- Administrivia
-
- Q6.1) Whom should I flame for anything I don't like about this FAQL?
- /dev/null, of course. Any additions or suggestions or discussion
- can be posted to the newsgroup, or mailed to the FAQL maintainer
- <jamie@uwo.ca>. The maintainer is not a massage professional. All mail
- about the FAQL will be acknowledged within five days of receipt (usually on
- the day of receipt). If you haven't received a notice of receipt within a
- week then something is wrong.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q6.2) To Do
- This FAQL is still under construction. I am preparing a new
- multi-part version to replace this singel part version. I think the length
- (nearly 1000 lines) of the current version makes it more difficult to use.
- What follows is a list of questions to be added or changed:
- - I think the part about massaging towards the heart needs to be
- rewritten, but I'm not qualified to do it
- - some paragraphs that summarize all the advice about oils in all
- the various files about massage oil in the archive
- - something about diagnosing problems over the 'net (why it's not
- a great idea and what information will be needed to get basic
- advice).
- - A definition of rolfing would be a welcome addition to question
- 1.2
- - There have been many recent questions about licencing
- requirements recently. I think a question about this could be
- answered in the FAQL but it might take a while for me to write it.
- Don't hesitate to write it yourself and then submit it.
-
- If you would like to volunteer :) to write some or all of the
- answers please contact the FAQL maintainer <jamie@uwo.ca>.
- The file `faql.to-add' in the archive (see question 5.1.2) contains
- postings that I would like to have incorporated into the FAQL.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q6.3) Recent changes to this FAQL
- Since 6 February 1995
- Removed someone's name from question 4.3 at their request. Added
- the huge notice to the top of the doc because some archive sites (you know
- who you are) don't bother to coordinate their file updates with regulated
- archives.
- This version is mostly frozen while I apply all changes to the new
- multi-post version.
-
- ------------------------------
-
- Q6.4) Acknowledgements
- Many parts of this FAQL are almost identical to those posted by
- amw@math.columbia.edu (Winkler) on 3 Dec 1992 (see the `faql.all' file in
- the archive). Winkler deserves a lot of credit for the work he did.
- The introductory portion of this article have been adapted from the
- same section in the comp.lang.c FAQL (message-ID
- <1994Jan01.0300.scs.0001@eskimo.com> posted on 1 Jan 1994) which is
- copyright 1988, 1990-1993 by Steve Summit.
- The FAQL is posted by J. Blustein <jamie@uwo.ca>. The following
- (in alphabetical order by surname) are collaborating to edit and amend the
- FAQL: Bill Arnett <Bill_Arnett@mindlink.bc.ca>, Corrina Perrone
- <corrina@cs.colorado.edu>, John Cole <barkis@av8r.dwc.edu>, julian
- collier <jcollier@nyx.cs.du.edu>, Keith Grant <keg@strathspey.llnl.gov> and
- Lawrence Warnock <Massage@ix.netcom.com>. Please send mail about this FAQL
- to jamie@uwo.ca, not to the other members of the `alt.backrubs team'.
- A A Adams <aaa@scs.leeds.ac.uk>, John Cole, Keith Grant, Caroline
- Knight <cdfk@hplb.hpl.hp.com>, Kevin Kunz <FootC@aol.com>, Lawrence
- F. London, Jr. <london@sunSITE.unc.edu> and Terry Norman <tnt@onramp.net>
- made suggestions that are incorporated into this FAQL.
- --
- Jamie Blustein <jamie@uwo.ca>
- No trees were destroyed to create this post.
-